I love it! Your rooftop garden looks really great
I do think you underestimated the size of pots. The okras too. The tomato pots look more like the sizes they need
at minimum. Bigger, really, would be better -- like half barrels, or a large water trough (with drainage holes) along the wall (ingenious trellising, btw).
Those squiggly white lines are leafminers for sure. (good eyes imafan!) I just read somewhere --didn't keep the link-- that Spinosad works on
citrus leaf miners if applied in early stages of infestation. You can also simply squish them inside the leaf -- look for bulge or dark shadow at end of squiggle -- or cut or punch the entire squiggle out and dispose properly.
Of the cucurbita, gourds are least susceptible to mildew and most drought tolerant -- and that seems to be the case here. I suspect that with restricted root system and drying out, these plants are stressed out and more vulnerable to disease. Stressed plants are attractive to pest insects.
Remove leaves that have no green in them -- they are of no use now and only vector for pests and disease -- Up the concentration of milk to 30-40% and apply alternate weeks with the fungicide.
I would harvest the cucumber and call the plants done, and start a new batch of seeds/plants. If there is some kind of limitation to the growing season, plant a faster maturing variety. Also, southern gardeners find cucumbers do better in partial shade. Even here, I can grow them in part shade though probably not as productively. Could yours be getting too much sun? (Again, gourds and melons would do better than cukes in heat and sun.)
If you have sufficiently long season ahead of you, you may want to try Armenian or Persian cucumbers which are related to melons.