I have an infestation of some sort of little white bug in my soil - in all my soil.

Sorry about the iPhone picture - it's best I can do.
At first I found them under pots on the ground and they looked like the young of the adult grey things that I thought were earwigs but now see are actually not. (I have always wondered what those ugly dive-bombing things were called, now I know). Perhaps we should also identify the grey things; segmented, kind of like a fishmoth but rounder and only outdoors and only under rocks and things on the ground. I might remember another name for them after I post this

Anyway, they are harmless (the grey things) and I had no problem with them being there (what I thought were their larvae). Then I noticed them in the soil around various plants. When I watered they would all rise to the surface and start scrambling about then go back under when the water drained. I still thought they were harmless at this point.
At the same time I was battling aphids on everything and increasing numbers of white fly as well as scale, spider mites and powdery mildew. The lemon tree in particular is badly affected and while I got the aphids off and wiped off the scale the white fly caused more damage.
Somewhere along the line I realised that the white larvae are everywhere! They are even in the soil I use to pot with and I had to bake some in the oven just to start some seeds. I then realised that my white fly problem does seem to have something in common with the increase in these little things.
I definitely have not found an increase in the adult grey insects and coupled with my pest problems I am worried that I allowed an infestation to occur. According to this image of white fly larvae they could be that, except I haven't found them on leaves but in the soil and under things on the bricks.

Source: Wikipedia
Perhaps they can be somethings else?