I am extremely new to gardening and already completely consumed by it

I think my children and I went a bit overboard with our first garden

tomatoes
squash
cabbage
carrots
lettuce
broccoli
cauliflower
peas
onions
Peppers
Strawberries
Blackberry bushes
Blueberry Bushes
and a Plum tree
We actually started three gardens (two from seeds in the ground and one from already established, transplanted veggies in a raised bed), experimenting with the best location. However, they all seem to be sprouting and doing well .

Now to my question... I see so many bugs in and around the raised bed garden (rollie pollies, ants, flying things, crickets, worms, things with many legs, spiders, etc). I am ready to kill any and all bugs that I see, but is that necessary?
Which insects are enemies to my veggies and which ones can stick around?
If this question has already been asked, please refer me to the post.
Thanks for your time...