The Houston kids here for a couple of days. DiL in banking (traditional male dominated field). I had the 3 1/2 yr old g-son (here) show 4 1/2 yr old going on princess g-daughter how to take the bowl of kitchen scraps to compost. The I turn with fork and we look at the worms. She was a squirmy lil' princess! Her Mom said she doesn't like worms, and hinted the 'girl' thing. Being a good MiL, kept my tongue.
I guess all of us females here went down the wrong garden path! Sigh.