Thank you everyone. She is number 4 and so far the biggest challenge is keeping her 3 adoring siblings from loving her too much.
Now, when you can take your eyes off her for a moment, don't forget to at least water the plants!
My husband tried to water the plants while I was in the hospital but grossly underestimated the amount they needed. Now my mother is here (she is also a gardener) and she is trying to help them (and me) recover. Most will make it but I think I lost all my tomato plants.
I guess it's a trade off, one baby girl for 12 tomato plants.