Yesterday Saturday was one of the worse days in my life. First just before going to work on Friday night for Saturday my wife told me that my dad was dieing in a hospital back in Boston. It was the weekend and calling in on a weekend is some thing that goes against your record so I went to work, I also need the extra money right now. At work it hit me hard and I went to a room with some house sized machines and ran one of the computer operated ones back there so I could be away from people, and as the things on it were as hot as on some of the more in the open machines. I got through the night even though I lost it a few times. When a manager came in the morning I told him what was happening and he canceled my Sunday over time for me so I would not get it on my record. I called when I got home and my mother-in-law told me my dad died at 4am Boston time.
We had plans to go to ski Saturday as my wife’s ski club was having a BBQ at the resort and we had an over night guest that was going with us so we went skiing. My wife and I were skiing with a friend down a slope and a woman was going side to side being taught by an instructor. As I went by I thought to my self that the instructor should not have that woman on this part of the mountain, as it was a bit steep for her. When my wife went by the woman had stopped and my wife gave her a wide berth but with out looking up hill to see if any one was coming and cut right in front of my wife. My wife who has a shoulder injury was in pain in her shoulder. My wife and the other skier collided. We went to the Hospital clinic at the bottom of the resort and the x-rays showed that my wife had broke her clavicle bone.
Some days I just wished never happened.
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How horrible, having to work in such circumstances and then witnessing such a painful accident on top of it.
Condolences on the loss of your father. I'm sure he was a good man and a good example of a man for you; I think you've told some stories about him here on the forum.
Best wishes to your wife for a successful recovery away from people who aren't paying attention.
Cynthia H.
Condolences on the loss of your father. I'm sure he was a good man and a good example of a man for you; I think you've told some stories about him here on the forum.
Best wishes to your wife for a successful recovery away from people who aren't paying attention.
Cynthia H.
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I'm terribly sorry to hear this. I know what it's like to the miss being there in the final moments of your fathers day.
Stupid mother freaking* work I was at work myself missed it by 15 minutes.
I was actually coming in this section to wish everyone some love, in one of those moods. Now I just wish you some love to help you through.
I'm sorry, hope your wife does okay, I just don't know what to say, these tears say it all.
Stupid mother freaking* work I was at work myself missed it by 15 minutes.
I was actually coming in this section to wish everyone some love, in one of those moods. Now I just wish you some love to help you through.
I'm sorry, hope your wife does okay, I just don't know what to say, these tears say it all.