There is no escape from getting olde, except the obvious one. I prefer to think of it as a measure of success. How do we not turn into fuddy-duddies and old fogies?
I decided it would be helpful to define the terms. (LINK) & (LINK)
Now that I've read one etymologist's ideas on the concept, I'm not too sure. He may, himself be a little hidebound in his thinking ... I did note that an early reference to fuddy was to a garden scarecrow, certainly ineffective if inactive.
Steve