we have a Hydrangea paniculata 'Unique' (still in it's plastic pot we bought it in over a year ago I'm sorry to say!) It's very leggy and, although it did produce some flowers these last 2 summers, the plant is probably about 60-70% 'woody legs' below. It apparently should produce 'massive conical upright heads of white flowers in late summer, tinged pink in autumn' - not quite what I was expecting when it happened then...

Could it be just that it needs planting out from it's pot (it doesn't appear to be too large for it if you ask me though) or is it that we haven't pruned it enough / at the right time?? It's had plenty of water over the summer (not that the UK gets all that hot and it doesn't last long before it cools off or rains anyway). What tends to happen is that we go to nuseries / g. centres and get all excited, buying plants before we know exactly where to put them - we still have a house to finish, let alone the gardens, so some plants get left in pots for some time, before we can get around to sorting them out!
Anybody got any suggestions about pruning / feeding / watering / planting, etc. that may help it? I don't really know much about gardening at all yet and I don't really have any pics to send as my own laptop's not working at the moment and that's where they all are, sorry...

Any help would be most appreciated and I will make the effort to nurse this one asap if necessary so as not to lose it!