Plant the garden, and let her poke at the bees, if she chooses to after having been told that they sting! That is what I did as a child and what my children did. I remember the one time that my dad showed me how to capture a bumblebee by closing the flower around the bee who was busy at work. Later I tried the same thing. Wow, what an experience. The bee popped me on the thumb which proceeded to swell to double its normal size. Lesson learned! Bees are great, but don't grab them. If you touch them, do so very carefully. Until this day, I continue to 'pet' them on the little furry tufts of the back. Some allow such and some don't. It is a nice lesson to learn about stinging critters and to learn which ones are aggressive and which ones are not. Getting stung, IMO, is part of being a child and learning about nature. Seems I got stung dozens of times as a child. Of course a person should be mindful of severe immune reactions, and take necessary steps if an aggravated immune response takes place. Still, IMO, there is no valid reason to be overly protective about such things, except where sensitivity does show itself. Even then the child is better served having been stung and learning of the sensitivity at an early age. That is a much better option than having a near death experience as an adult who has no idea that he/she has a sensitivity. That happened to a friend of mine, at age 65 or so.
Of course this is my own opinion, and whatever you decide to do is your decision, independent of the opinion expressed above. This is my disclaimer.
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(Sorry, but that would not be my style)