Thanks JONA -- it goes to show they are difficult to diagnose. I've been looking and comparing photos, and I'm not really seeing any of the various mosaic virus symptoms... I think? But came across these that may be closer....
Symptoms of pseudo curly top on tomato plant
https://vegetablemdonline.ppath.cornell. ... ly_Tom.htm

Young infected Walter plant
Photos courtesy of T.A. Zitter, Cornell University, Ithaca, NY
plants are stunted with greatly reduce foliage with upward curling leaves; found in south Florida and spread by treehoppers
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Symptoms of potato leafroll virus on tomato plant
https://vegetablemdonline.ppath.cornell. ... ll_Tom.htm

Potato leafroll virus from Australia
Photo courtesy of J. Thomas
plants are stunted and have yellowing leafroll symptoms especially if infected at an early age
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This one looks close...
Symptoms of alfalfa mosaic virus on tomato plant
https://vegetablemdonline.ppath.cornell. ... MV_Tom.htm

Stem cut section of tomato with alfalfa mosaic virus
Photo courtesy of J. Watterson
yellowing and bronzing with necrosis of leaves; leaves stop growing and curl downward; longitudinal cut of stem reveals brown streaking of phloem and pith; also noted in roots; frequently occurs when tomatoes are planted next to alfalfa (illustrated) or red clover infected fields
...not sure if I saw any signs of the leaf symptoms though...
Symptoms of alfalfa mosaic virus on tomato leaves
https://vegetablemdonline.ppath.cornell. ... MV_Tom.htm

yellowing and purpling develops on mature plant leaves, while calico symptoms appear on young leaves
--maybe mine are not "mature"--
I have some alfalfa and red clover growing as cover crop and general N-fixer. So maybe?
I'll go out and compare against the plants again, and also try the suggested test.