I freely admit that people here did warn me about the borage getting big. Ever since the tomatoes went in the ground, I have had to keep cutting the borage back to keep it from over-taking the tomatoes. Stuff is huge and incredibly fast growing. AND I never did see a single honey bee at it

AS, I think you are the one who gets to tell me, I told you so!

In the meantime, the tomato plants which were my leggy seedlings are still looking a bit leggy and spindly. I don't think it's because they were leggy seedlings; if the conditions had been right, they would have recovered from that. But they are leggy now for the same reason they were before... not enough light.
When we bought this place 9 years ago, the patio was pretty much in full sun. But the trees along one edge have gotten a LOT bigger and are encroaching and shading it. I think tomorrow I will get my chainsaw out and take down a couple trees and a couple huge branches, let a little more sun back. I WANT one full sun spot!